Being Alone Doesn T Simply Mean You Re Lonely

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Assalamualaikum wrb. Hi lovelies.

Have you ever experience a time where you just want to be by yourself and not wanting to associate with other people? Maybe some of you would say "nahh, I'd prefer to have someone with me all the time." I agreed it is actually kinda scary to be alone but being alone doesn't mean you're lonely or unwanted. We just simply want have the time of our own where we don't have to actually think about unnecessary things on where to go, where to eat and just follow where your heart wherever it takes.

The point here is not about whether it is good or bad but the view. Our view on it. What other people think won't matter because they as well, will eventually go through the same thing that we did. Maybe they just didn't realise that it's a cycle and an event where we all have at a certain point in life.

Happy

The truth is, being alone sometimes is a great retreat from all the buzz with other people. People come and go. Each individuals have a commitment and they won't have their 24/7 for you. All you have is your very own 24/7. That is the time you gotta have the most for yourself. Don't throw it away endlessly for something unreasonable and let it go to waste.

Don't neglect but make the most out of it. 

When you're alone take it for granted and have the time for yourself. Pamper yourself with a cup of tea or coffee while enjoying the view outside a cafe, wear fancy outfits, treat yourself to a good meal, go for a shopping and buy yourself some new stuff, watch your favourite tv show or movies and etc. But when you're with a friend, enjoy every moment of it. Went out and have fun with them. It's quite the same but this time you're not alone. It's good to have both one at a time. Trust me. You should know yourself better on which, when and what to choose in between. Right?

So, what are your thoughts on this?

Warmly,
Ray

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