See The Bigger Picture Of Life

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Sometimes life turns against us, we lose something or someone valuable; or maybe we fall into accidents and misunderstandings, we can’t finish anything, we couldn’t start anything, and then everything is delayed, nothing goes it should. You get the feeling that life has stopped, that you’ll get hit by something the moment you step out your home and life will become a series of bad events.
One thing that have to know, nature always share purposeful events with us and send us needed lessons, but we mostly enjoy our comfort zones and avoid taking responsibility for things that happening around within us. We would rather blame outside circumstances for everything happened. We reject responsibility, while the true is nature and Allah always tries to remind us of this. We avoid admitting our mistakes, we avoid feeling guilty, and we avoid admitting that something our fault.
 
All series in our life, especially bad events come to remind and rewind us that we are the true creators of our destiny and our lives. It’s amazing opportunities to stop for a moment, to take a pause, to go inward, to observe what’s going on and why, to reflect and review everything that needs to be reflected and reviewed. THE CENTRE IS US NOT OTHERS. Maybe we should correct our behaviour, fix things, finish unfinished things, put some things on hold for a while, and resolve past issues.
It shows us that we can control the way we react to those outside events. It teaches us to refocus our attention from outside to inside so that we can align with the outside in the right way. It wants to show us that we can’t control how things will turn out and unfold in the material world. We can control the way we react, act, speak, feel, how we experience those things, how we behave under those situations that frustrate us how we use our gift and how we communicate.
If you stuck in something, if you get stuck anywhere anyhow, remember that this is precious time to stop to revalue, reschedule, review, recover, reorganize, reveal, redo, or other RE. everything that start with RE is good for you. We have chance to heal our past, to revisit things we thought we were done with but that are actually still stuck within us. We can stop for a while and observe in silence. This gives us the necessary time and space to get closer to our true alignment.
Maybe we have conflict with someone. You feel like no one understand you, no one listening you, no one support you, but trust me that conflict is actually a healthy thing. It reminds us of where we need to improve ourselves and to accept the situation. We are reminding to forgive, rethink things being said, review our behaviour, correct our wrong, let go everything that does not serve us anymore, reconnect with our intuition, and put more trust in life to Allah and the way it unfolds for us and through us. It’s always about our control over ourselves and self-responsibility.
When we got troubled and imbalanced energy on doing something. It reminds us of our wrong doings. It shows us we’re doing something that’s not good for us, or maybe we’re not ready yet for that moment, and it protects us from going into wrong direction, it gives us time and space to level up our readiness. From our perspective, it seems that life against us during this time, you feel desperate, maybe you’d think that you’re cursed that day, that you’re experiencing bad luck. By the way, trust that there’s no bad luck, it’s always our lack of understanding the bigger picture, lack of ability to recognize what’s truly going on. What if your delayed, protected you from a bigger accident and a bigger trouble? What if bad series events in your life saved you from something much worse? What if your being late or not showing up on that place because it’s not the right time for it right now? Finally, it protects you and leads you toward the right direction. Maybe you’re not supposed to come to a place today because tomorrow or other day is much better. You wanted to finish it today, but your higher self knows better.

#self-reflection
27-12-2022

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